Hey!
I live in Canada and I'm teen. I've been through a lot of stuff with my friends over the last few years and I always try to give my insight into their problems (sometimes even when they don't really want it lol).
I've realized that over time I have accumulated a lot of questions about moving on, so if you have a question about that, lay it on me!!
I don't think that ratings matter, and that you should choose someone to trust your question with, that will answer it with care, but show you what the world really is and wont sugar coat it.
I hope you guys find my advice helps, hope to talk soon!! :D
Angie
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Ok I like this guy lets just say his nme is Bob.
So i told BOB i like him then he sent his friends to talk to me
they were like sooo BOB has a thing for u and what would you say if he asked you out? i told them i would say yes. But that was the week of valentines day.he also told like all my friends he was gonna ask me out after Vday because he didnt wanna buy me a present!(GURRRRR)But about a week ago this girl asked him out HE SAID YES!
i really want to date this kid! but hes dating someone else! theres no way im going to get over him unless i like move skools wich isnt an option
What should i do????
HELP!!! i luuuuv BOB (link)
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Hey,
Well that sucks. But lets look at your options, you can think positively, and hope things wont work out between him and the girl or you can gt over him, which, btw is not impossible, I can help.
SO lets say you wait it out, wait a few weeks and then if it seems liek they are really getting along go to the next step, if things seem to be hitting the rocks, do some detective work and see what his friends are saying, who knows maybe he;s going to break up with her. BUT there is still the chance that he wont want to date you even if he did break up with her, (ouch eh?) well then move on to the next step.
Okay, well there are a million ways to get over a crush, though some of them are good and some of them are bad. I have a billion of them, and I have helpped other people get over 2 year long relationships, so I can help you with this. Just stick with me. K Well first involve yourself. Join a club volunteer get job. Anything to keep your mind off of him. Yeah thats classic and yeah you're probably busy as it is, but try and get something new, something achievment based, because that will let you to look as losing him as a good thing.
Hang with your friends. Hang out in places he wont be liek _____'s house or your house. IF someone brings him up, go to step three.
Step three, is a new guy. No you are ready for a new guy. You arent ready to date anyone, but what you have to do is develop(or build on an existing) crush on a guy. It doesnt matter who, just the guy next to you in science or the boy in your gym class. Yes this will be hard, but no one said it was easy. Just pick a random guy and involve yourself with him. Think about what his last name might be. Who is his older brother. Does he have a cat? Stupid little things, and try and find them out. This will help you to concentrate on someone else. Everytime someone brings up bob bring up the fact that theres a new guy you have your eye on, and make up a guy (not this one) and say things like his fave colour is red and he has blue eyes, and let them look for this imaginary guy for a little while. Mean while you can keep getting over Bob.
Keep a diary. This will help you with your feelings. If you think about how you are feeling and try to write it out on paper, it will help you to decide where you are emotionally, and afterward you can read it and see what torment this guy put you through.
Those are just four steps that you can take. But you have to take them all. No skipping number two or switching number four for something else. IF you stick with this, it will help you. If you have any problems, or this doesnt work, like i said, I have a billion of these. And even if you run me dry, I'll think of something else. I am the moving on tip queen. So its all good. I know this is tough, but if you try to stick with it, you will get over him, I promise. I hope I helped and I hope this works out okay. Lots oflove,
ANgie91
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if there was a rating higher than 5 i would have given it to you..
but thanks ALOT anyways i apreciate all the advice!
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