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Ok well if anyone has read my other question you would kno that i hav been daing someone for 3 weeks now and he wants to have sex with me. but i didnt know if he was using me or not.

Well he sed that he will wait but he wants to finger me and stuff. Should i let him or should i just want because im scared that he might get the idea that i want to have sex with him soon but i dont. Im going to the movies with him on saturday and he wants to feel my up my skirt and stuff should i let him do that or not? I want him too but idk if thats the right choice. Please help!! thanks

it's only been what.. 3 weeks? Definitely not a good idea to let him. For one thing, i'm pretty sure you guys haven't developed enough trust to even do it. If he loves you that much, he should be willing to wait till YOU are ready. Three weeks isn't even long enough for him to start feeling you up. Tell him to keep his wandering hands to himself or end it. It seems like he just wants to get physical with you rather than have an actual relationship with the other things (ie hanging out, talking etc). It's not the right choice so I would advise you definitely don't let him. You have a high chance of ending up in the position that you really regret it.

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(Rating: 5) Wow thank you. you just opened up my eyes to alot of things. Thanks i will tell him that!
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