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i was at a sleepover and 2 of my friends talked crap about my other friend and i told my friend they did and that friend is gonna tell the friends who did it that she knows...and they're gonna find out its me but they're my good friends and i dont want them to hate me WHAT DO I DO!!!!

first, you have to answer me/yourself a question: did you talk crap about her also? cause if you did, and your friends are gonna be hard on you.
regardless, your friends are going to be mad. no matter what you do, they're going to be mad one way or another. especially if their girls.

not only did they talk about her, but you talked about them when you told her all the stuff that they said about her.

im going to be completely honest, this wont be easy, especially since you weren't supposed to tell. but i think that if they were talking shit in the first place, and about their FRIEND, i think you need to reconsider if they're friends or not.

another thing is, even though i hate doing it also, you need to be the nice one in the situation cause they're not going to be the nice ones. they're going to ask you about it, and when they do, you better apologize right away. considering if they're good friends or not will determine if they accept the apology or not. you just gotta be as sweet as sugar and hope to god that they accept it.

for you and everyone else, i hope they do. i dont want you to loose friends cause of something this rediculous. =[
but im really sorry man. gossip world is tough, you just gotta know the limit to it.

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(Rating: 5) thanks sooo much you helped out a lot..if u ever need any advice tell me id be happy to help
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