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I am very shy about my body.
I never get in a bathing suit even around my friends because i dont have big boobs, and like they all do. I always feel so insecure. I don't like it. I was invited to a pool party and i'm mainly going because of the reason
but thats not the fool reason.
any help I can get on being comfortable with my body ?

Every teenage girl has atleast one thing they'd change about their body or appearance, so you're really not alone. Believe it or not, just about every one of your friends will probably worried about their own flaws rather than focusing on everyone else's flaws. If you aren't confident with what you were born with, then atleast there are ways to enhance what you already have. In this case - find a bathing suit that'll compliment your chest. Choose a halter styled top for more support or anything with extra padding & push up for cleavage. Eventually, you have to accept not everyone develops at the same rate & not everyone is born with the same features. Instead of focusing on everything you don't like about yourself, focus on the things you love (that you're lucky to have, example: a flat stomach or blue eyes.) Remember that just because someone was born with big boobs, does not mean they are better than the next person. Who knows - maybe you're more friendlier & outgoing than her. As cliche as it sounds, the only thing that matters is your personality & character. & you should learn to focus more on the person you are inside, than what is developing on the outside. Have fun @ your pool party. :)

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(Rating: 5) your right. thank you :]
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