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Missa8305
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i have a really immature and pathetic problem thats made up of a few little problems. but it's REALLY bothering me and stressing me out.
this part isnt really a problem; two days ago the most amazing, sweetest thing happened to me. "matt" is my best friend. he means everything to me. i am so comfortable with him, can be myself around him, can tell him anything, and our relationship is so important to me. it's so hard to do that with anyone else because i'm kind of shy and insecure. but matt gives me butterflies (link)
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It sounds like your two friends will hurt you no matter what happens with Matt. If you go out with Matt, they will probably continue doing what they are doing for awhile. If you dont go out with Matt, it might be hard to forgive them for this fight you guys are having. Ironically, I think you need someone to listen to your feelings and help protect you at school....Someone like Matt would be perfect for you. Plus, if you want to go out with Matt and he wants to go out with you, you should go for it. Just ask yourself this question, "would I rather go out with Matt and both of us be happy, or would I rather say no to him and have Matt's heart broken and have the slim chance of remaining friends with two people who are hurting me right now?" If you are truly best friends with Matt, that will last a lifetime. You lucked out because your best friend is of the opposite gender. Whatever you choose though, if you still care about your friends I would get them some help about them cutting themselves. It could get bad if it gets out of control.
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thank you so much, your advice was great and it really helped me. i'm so glad you answered...once again thank you!!=]
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