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My name is Marissa, you may call me anything you like though, as long as it's not offensive, obviously.

I haven't been on in quite some time and I'm going to try harder to come on more.

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Just remember that everyone has something special about each of them, and if other people can't see that, it's their loss not yours.





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okay..


i met a guy a couple years back we hungout a couple times two days in a row and i kept in touch thru the internet. BUT we haven't hungout only those two times a couple years ago..

he hated me and he was always rude over the internet. then i changed my look around and we hungout about a month ago. and he thought i was way cuter... i was like in love with him still from those couple years back.

we eventually had sex.. all of those memories just built up and i think that was for a reason.. he asked me out and hes a really nice guy. we have been together for about a month or two.

my question is should i breakup with him?

im afraid of falling for him harder and getting my heartbroken once again.. and im scared he still has feeling's for his ex's? i asked him about it and he was like crying because he thought i didn't trust him..

he told me he didn't have feelings for anyone but me.


should i be with him still?
im getting really attached.
i want to marry this kid.


16/f
and hes seventeen.

girl it's obvious you have a ton of feelings for him, so why fight them. i mean he obviously cares for you too. but i mean you can never experience love if you fear it. if you run from it, then you'll just have a bunch of meaningless relationships. i mean everyone's scared of getting hurt and never being good enough...but one way or another you have to get over that fear and i know its hard and i know that you'd just rather run and never be hurt but you gotta take a couple risks here and there. and now it sounds like you found yourself a good guy that you fell in love with and it sounds like he has no intentions of hurting you. so all the pain he's ever made you feel before, just forget it. you should stay with this boy but if things don't work out, they dont work out. but that leaves new oppertunities for you and it may hurt if things dont work out with him, and it may hurt for a very long time...but you cant cry because its over. you have to just smile because it happened. and you should really just play this one out, don't let go of something that you know feels right.

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