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My name is Jeanny and i'm 14.
I've been through plenty and no the past hasn't been the greatest. I love to give advice and help people. I always put my friends before me. That is just how I am. I dress how I want, and because of that I get labled emo,punk blah but I don't let that get to me anymore. I love my friends but I don't love my life, things could go better at times. I get sad a lot and Stuff but most the time I don't even know why. Photography and music is my life, I love it. I am a loud//crazy//random person and most the time I have to be told shutup because i'm being to loud. I hide my feelings all the time. I can look happy and cheerful but crying on the inside. I get mad easily and I hate it. I'll go off on people if they talk about my friends.

Boys get scared of me because they think i'm "evil" but at least I can get them to leave me alone. I try to be nice now a days and I try not to get a temper with my dad because I know he means the best for me. My mom hasn't always been there for me but i've learned to accept that. Life ain't perfect and there is nothing that me or anyone in this world can do about it. I try to accept that. I love to give advice but I never listen to it for me. I don't think it fits for me so I let other people give me the advice.

I'm addicted to myspace and I hate it. It takes up so much of my life but I know that I could never delete it.I've been in love and i've got my heart broken, i'm still workin on that. When i'm mad or upset music is there for me. It's my theropy :]


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my mom has been seeing her boyfriend for about 2 years now

i love him with all my heart
and he is like the father i never had

well they don't live with each other yet
an i really wish they did
so i called him[ my mom know i called him ] and told him
how i think it would make my mom very happy and less stressed if he moved in or they talk about buying a house and moving in with each other

well he thought for some weird reason
something was wrong with me just because i had a major break down the same day about how i think i am fat and i hate my body but that isnt why i wanted to call him.
anyway he is coming over today to talk to me

he thinks i need someone to talk to
which i dont because i already talked to my mom
and i am in the best mood now

so when he comes what should i say and do?

i mean i thought i explained myself perfectly on the phone (link)
I think that you should just tell him that you don't need to talk. That you talk to your mom about things when they are needed to be talked about. Tell him that you just really think that he's a great guy and like a father to you and you thought the idea of him moving in was an excellent idea. Don't lie about anything there is no need to. Tell him your that being a teen is stressful and that just because you had one breakdown doesn't mean that you need someone to talk to :]
but say it in a nice way I wasn't trying to have it sounds rude lol.

hope that i help :]


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