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okay, first off i am 15. the guy i like is 19. we really get along greatly, we talk on the phone for hours and never run out of things to say. we even finish each other's sentences sometimes. a lot of people have been saying he just "wants some" but, mostly everyone knows i'm not that way, including him. i really like him but i dont want to be called a whore for dating him considering everyone says college boys only want one thing. another thing i worry about is my parents. what they would think if i told them. please help me. :(

It's very well possible that he's not after one thing. You know this guy better than me, your friends or anyone from the outside - so you shouldn't worry about what everyone else thinks. Your decision is your own. Four years isn't too much of a big difference, but atleast people are concerned & are just looking out for you. To play it on the safe side, continue to date this guy, but don't put out at all. If he sticks around, he's clearly interested in YOU & respects you. But if for some reason, things become shady & he no longer wants to date, it's pretty obvious he was only around for sex. As far as your parents go - it's best to discuss it with them before they find out on their own. If they don't approve the two of you dating, they can press charges against him since he's over 18 & you're a minor.

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(Rating: 5) thanks so much! :)
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