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Hey I have a problem. I am a CHRISTIAN and BAPTIST and there is this boy I really like he's cute, nice, kind, funny, understands me, and he doesn't just judge me on my outward aperance atleast it seems that way. Well, I really like this guy but, he's not a CHRISTIAN!!! And, I've tried to let go of him beleive me but, it's not that easy!!!I told him I din't like him anymore but, then I would cry cry cry and cry. Every love song semmed to remind me of him and I couldn't bear to see him at school. I asked GOD why are you doing this to me help me stay strong did I ,no!!! I gave in and I am madly inlove with him again. And, when I say madly man I mean it!!! He's always there for me. I don't know what to do i can't witness to him beacuse if i did he would only become a CHRISTIAN for me not because he wants to or understands that he needs to. I've PRAYED to GOD and asked HIM for HELP. And, I know i need to be PATIENT. But, i feel that evenwhen GOD says let go of him i refuse not to and won't.In just need advice on how to let go of him or is there a way to make both god and this guy happy. I doubt it but and help would well help!!! Sorry if this is confusing or to long. Just someone try to gove me the best advice possible I won't judge you!!! Thanks. And GOD BLESS ya'll!!!

Hey, I am a Christian too. Webstar Dictionary defines a Christian as one who believes in Jesus and what He teaches. Personally, I have dated guy who weren't and people who were of other religious backgrounds, and I think its okay if you date this guy. God knows that your boyfriend isn't just "any guy"and that you love him. I truly believe that God placed this boy in your life for a reason and that through your Christianity you will touch this boy's life and he can change spiritually. I do not think you should "let go" of this boy, especially if you love him; it might not seem like it now but everything happens for a reason and I think that God will use you to help this boy in his life and while it IS very hard at times God made you strong and you CAN get through this. Good Luck and hope this helped! :)

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(Rating: 5) thanks soo much great advice

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