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To be blunt, I always get hurt when I have feelings for someone. It never fails; If anything is there for me always, that's rejection. I like guys that seem nice, but aren't that great in the end, or "just want to be friends."
I know it may sound stupid, but when I like a guy, it's not superficial; I actually like who he is and care about him, which could be why it hurts so much sometimes.
Well, my question is, why is God putting me through the same thing over and over again? Why can't He just let me be happy? I'm a Christian, and I definitely love and believe in God.
I know that I'm going to grow from all of this, and I know that having a boyfriend can be hard sometimes, but why do the same situations keep repeating themselves? Thanks in advance. (link)
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Listen...
There is no way I can give you a completely unbiased answer, because I have my own views on religion. But if there's one thing God can't mess with, it's free will. You can't blame God for any of this because the only way he could solve your problem is by screwing around with some other guy's, or your, free will. It's just not fair to anyone.
But either way, I think it would be easier for you to deal with this situation if you didn't consider him a part of it. The most important thing right now is to have a thick skin and persevere. You WILL meet your guy, it might just take a while. Just keep looking and things will sort themselves out.
Good luck!
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