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But then again, don't we all love our brain?
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Age: 21
Member Since: October 29, 2005
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Last Update: March 7, 2007
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i have known this kid for 9 years we get along great he is major cute and he liked me when we were younger but i blew it with him and now i like him...but unfortunatly he has a gf i knwo i should wait till they break up but if we go out and then break up will that jeaprodize our friendship? (link)
If there was a fallen tree trunk barring the way to a pot of gold, would you step over it?

Another girlfriend is a fallen tree trunk.

(Unless she's your friend, in which case she is a high brick wall.)

Another girlfriend is a fallen tree trunk, but not everybody is able to go over it. Sometimes it's dirty, sometimes you fall off, sometimes you hurt yourself. Sometimes you just have to step over it.

If you do get to the other side, though, you might realize that you may have to give up friendship. Friendships after a break up are hard; you hurt him, he hurt you, you don't like him, he likes you, or vice-versa, you try to stay friend but somehow someone always ends up confused or hurt, and it's a whole big mess, and you wonder why you bothered climbing over the trunk in the first place.

Now, what you have to decide is what is the most precious to you: do you feel that your life wouldn't be complete without a kiss from the prince charming, or would you rather hang out with the jester?

Oh yeah, and if you decide to cut through the tree trunk... just remind yourself that not all guys like a lumberjill...


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Thanks that really helped...where do u get ur metaphors...keep in touch with me my sn is xocrazy4monkies




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