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okay.. so im 15/f and my boyfriend 17/m got into a fight last night. see we have been together for a little over 5 months. we have only got into 3 big fights, counting this one.
last night we went to the movies, and then we hung out at his place. i was in a sad/bad mood so i didnt really talk to him all that much, but i got over it and we started talking, then had sex. Well, he has this game on his phone that i like to play.
&& his birthday is next month, and i was going to have a surprise party for him, i told his best friend, so i looked at his texting to see if his friend told him anything about it. and i saw that his friend asked if he was with me and my bf said yea, shes being the usal bitch. i mean, i didnt do anything to called a "bitch". i told him i wanted to go home and on the way home i was crying and stuff. then i got home and we got into a texting fight, and i told him i would never call him any names like that, and then today he was saying how i dont appreciate the things he does for me. and i said im sorry that you called me a bitch and i had sex with you. and he said that he told his friend that before we did anything.
well really theres more to it then that, but i cried all night and today.. am i over reacting?.. i mean i never had a boyfriend that does the things my boyfriend does for me. hes so sweet, and i do notice the things he does for me. i might not show how i love him, but i do, im just really scared of getting hurt like i did in the past... what should i do to show him that im sorry?... or should i even be sorry? (link)
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I kinda think that the person below me is wrong saying that you were basically the wrong one in this looking in his texts. I mean you guys have been together for awhile so it shouldn't be a big deal if you look at eachothers things, especially since you guys care/love eachother and have nothing to hide from eachother. Saying it was wrong of you to do that is like saying that you looked at his texts and found out he was cheating on you, yet 'it was his personal shit and you shouldn't have been looking.' I think you have a right to be upset and you shouldn't apologize because being called a bitch by someone you really care about behind your back hurts and makes you wonder what else they're saying behind your back. I just think that you should have a 'feel good' talk about it, or a calm talk, and try to settle things. Tell me how things goooo
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Rating: 5
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thank you!=]
we talked about and he said he was mad and thats why he said it, but i said thats still no reason to call me one, and he said hes really sorry and will never say it again! =]
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