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Well, I like this white boy and Im black. Sometimes he flirt with me but he told one of my guy friends that he don't like black girls like that he just want to be there friends. But I really like him. I needs some tips on how to flirt with him and turn him on in a way he would not look at the color of my skin. Im 16

If what he saying is true, than turning him onto a you might be really hard to do. But heres what I would do..

I would start getting more heavy with him by get into more deeper conversations (sexual or non-sexual) but not too much so you don't scare him away. Also conversations just about everyday life- like if he looks sad go up to him and ask him 'why so gloomy'.

Then I would be more flirty like touching hands or like if you sit across or near eachotehr in class like make weird faces (if the time is right) or mouth words.

Make sure to not be too into him, like have some time for yourself and friends, make him want you to talk to him.

Walk and talk in the halls, a lot, I know it seems like such a little thing but he'll get use to this (if he likes this attention) and if you have something good to talk about he'll enjoy it. However, that movie can backfire you can't get too attached to it like if he talks to someone else don't drag behind just walk away. And don't drag on the conversation just make it short, sweet, and making him want more.

Try and keep in contact with him out side of school especially. Don't call him first though! MAke him call you- like if he has an sn or myspace or just by talking in school try and do something fun over the weekend or after school. If he shows that he wants to spend time with you outside of school then whatever you're doing, it's working.

Go to a dance club, I guess because you're under 21 there isn't much available but if there is an under 18 one, then go together, and dance. It'll show him your intimacy.



I'm sorry if this advice is bad but your situation is one which I have to just try and think about what I would do, not what I did do because I haven't been in those type of shoes. I hope everything works out.

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