Hey!
I live in Canada and I'm teen. I've been through a lot of stuff with my friends over the last few years and I always try to give my insight into their problems (sometimes even when they don't really want it lol).
I've realized that over time I have accumulated a lot of questions about moving on, so if you have a question about that, lay it on me!!
I don't think that ratings matter, and that you should choose someone to trust your question with, that will answer it with care, but show you what the world really is and wont sugar coat it.
I hope you guys find my advice helps, hope to talk soon!! :D
Angie
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well my best friend just got a boyfriend .. and he's cute and nice and i really am very happy for her. i've never had a boyfriend (we are 15) and i want one .. so i always feel jealous when friends get boyfriends. and like i am soooo happy for them .. but i wish i had one too. how can i get over that feeling of jealousy? (link)
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Well, thats super hard, but I totally know what you mean (same situation for me) so I am often jealous as well. And its really hard, but what I do when I feel jealous is I just think about how I'm waiting for the perfect guy, and when I find him, I'm not going to be in it for that highschool relationship, where everythings about numbers and who is dating who. You're going to be in a mature relationship with someone who cares about you and isnt in that experimental age. So what if you're older when you get a boyfriend. Who cars if all of your friends have dated someone before you, thats okay, because you're going to meet someone great. And he's going to like you for who you are and your personality rather than your body (well in most cases). 15 year old guys are immature, and all they want is sex, so I think if we wait a bit we'll find an awesome guy who really cares about us. And even if we're wrong, then at least we can imagine that it will be great.
And sure your friends are going through all this happiness, but when they break up because he cheated on her, she's going to be crying on your shoulder, but you wont be going through that just yet. Sometimes waiting until you're older is a good thing too, because you may be the most mature kid in your class but some people arent emotionally mature for a boyfriend until they're in university, and trust me when you're ready they'll come to you.
Yeah I want a boyfriend, but I think that if I wait it will be more fun, so hopefully you can think that way too. If not, then why don't you take a chance and get a boyfriend. That will cure your jealousy.
Either way, I hope you can get over your jealousy, but just remember, jealousy is something that you wil always have all of your life, and unless you can be happy with what you have, then you arent really curing it, you're still comaring yourself to your friends and thats not really right. You know? I hope I answered your question though. good luck, love ya,
Angie91
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