about

advice

Well im only 14 as you can tell.
I want a baby because they are soo adoriable.
I have a boyfriend we have had protected sex a few times already.
And would do it again.
We have been together for 2 years.
I love him and he loves me.
He is 3 years older.
My parents know and have known his family our whole lives, blah blah blah blah blahh.
So i keep telling him how much i want one but like he says i know you do but i am not ready to be a father and think about how much it would hurt and we dont have enough money.
So i need someone to try and convince me not to want one.
Because you have no idea how badly i want one.
Please help :\

babe, as much as you think you want a kid. maybe you should rethink this. thoroughly. you are still just a baby yourself. and as adorable as babies are, it's hard. way hard. i can't say i know first hand, but i do have friends who had a baby at your age. not saying they regret it, but they do admit that it was hard. very hard. if you have a baby, you will need a job. and what about school? you can't give up things that you need for something you want. just wait, it would most likely work out better for you

[view]

(Rating: 5) thank you
great advice :)
<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
eXTReMe Tracker