I am 14 years old and it seems i go through alot more drama than i should. The only person who rele knows is my bff Chelsea and she helps me through alot. I have had 5 boyfriends and I rele know my stuff on tht part. My family has had many screw ups I have lost 4 dear ppl in the last year(including my dog.) I love to give advice to ppl at school and everyone comes to me for it so tht is why i made my own advice column. Dnt be afraid to ask me bout anything i will always have a response.
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Gender: Female
Location: NJ
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Age: 14
AIM: getalifeppl92
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13/f im starting to really hate life.im not going to a physicatrist.im more baggy clothes all my ~girl~ friends are more girly but in all mixed groups and my ~guy~ friend is more of a unique person he goesin all stlyes too.every1 is in a group or clique. all but me.it drives me crazy.yes i cuss alot yes i love black and i LOVE jewelry. i have my own style.i can go in any group but its uncomfortable but id rather be with my bff thats a guy but he goes to 2 schools so hes only here half the time and when he is here hes usually w/ me but mainly doin tests and work he missed. im alone in a school death trap. i am myself i dont change for anyone and i have my own style.but im not happy at all i dont have friends tht would always go w/ me most ignore me when their w/ their group but they still call me their 'friend'.my only true friend is my bff thats a guy.ppl think of me as a freak.yea so i never cared but now i do.~~~can u answer this question first then the next~~~now we like eachother as bf gf but people who date end up hating eachother.hes all i have.if we would break up sayin still friends is like sayin your dog died but you can still keep it.people also say o the two freaks dating. i never cared befor but now i do. ~help mee o please~ what do i do ~can u answer them sepratly please (link)
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okie....[1]About the cliques....I am just like you....Last year i used to bump from clique to clique because i had too many friends and then i got tired from goin to table to table cause i never thought any one was mi true friend. Alot of mi close friends have moved. The best thing i think to do to solve your clique problems is to find one clique and sit with them. My bro likes black alot and he is called a freak but once you get to know him he is a pretty cool dude. Find people who like you and your attitude no matter how you dress. Then if u sit with them more and more then they will start to accept you and invite you over and stuff.
[2] This is a familiar problem. It is difficult dating your bff and then if you guys break up its hard stayin friends. But i think if you dont give it a try then you dont know what your missing out on. I know it may not mean anything but if you guys break up then you should hang out like tht same week and act normal. Talk about it if it helps and if not just act like you were if you were only friends. Trust me the more and more you hang out the more and more you start being yourselves again.
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thanks it helped me alot but i cant 'bump from clique to clique' i dont realy have real friends they deny it at school but out of school they act like were the best of friends it drives me cray so i told them i still only have him as a friend when hes gone i sit alone theres never room but i just got a friend but hes in 8th im in 7th so were only toget her in math and lunch he had the same problem as me and my bff how come i can only ever have guy friends i hate girls now no offence im a girl to but since their guys they can never come over anymore my bff cuz i still like him as bf gf and my other friend because a guy a year older than me locked in my room so no one can ever come over but we do ''casually'' meet at the mall hehe planned
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