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Our orchestra [which I'm in] played with a band[they're kind of undiscovered but they are very very talented] and I enjoyed it very much [note that this isn't a high school side band or anything. They are very serious about it and earn their money with their music]
They were VERY VERY nice to everyone--especially the drummer-- he basically learned the names of 20+ people in the orchestra in 2 days and I got to talk with him a lot. And everyone in the band is so freakin nice like you wouldn't believe it! They took pictures with everyone and I got a hug from 4 of the members [few times from each one actually XD]. They even let few people go on their tour bus thing--which by the way was pretty awesome =]
But the thing is I know that there are many bands out there that are just nice for publicity and so they can advance up with the popularity chart [especially if they're not quite discovered] So I'm wondering how you could tell if they're just putting up an act or if they're really nice for real??
There's no way to be certain, but I'd think that it would be pretty hard to fake being nice, unless you did it all the time, which would mean you weren't really faking it. So, I don't think they're faking it, but I bet they make an effort to be nice for the reason you said. But hey, if they're talkin' to you and hugging you all the time-- sounds to me like they like you guys. Just my opinion.
(Rating: 5) I just wanted to know. I'm pretty sure that they are naturally nice though because not many people in bands [no matter how well known or how not well known they are] are kind of snobbish and think they're better than the fans [not all of them but some] But anywhos, thanks =]