Hello there, my name is Kayla, my close friends call me Kaylo, but you may call me Kayla Jay. I'm here on Advicenators because I like helping people. I'm always willing give advice on any topic, but my favorite topics are on relationships. So send over any question at all and I'll be happy to help!
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im 15 (almost 16)/f and my boyfriend is 18/m.
we've been dating almost 3 years now and are sexually active, but we do not use condoms. he usually either finishes in my mouth or on me, never in me. the thing is, i want to get pregnant, but he doesnt. i can understand why he doesnt though. what should i do? i really love him and i really want a baby. (link)
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I've gotta say right off the bat-- really really bad idea. I can understand that you love your boyfriend and all but having a baby with him will change (and basically ruin) everything. You may have to quit school, you'll never have any time to yourself, you'll never have any money (diapers and baby clothes are ridiculously expensive) and the poor baby will end up miserable and in a broken home. There are other way to show how much you love your boyfriend, but fifteen is way too young to get pregnant. I assure you, nothing good can come of having a baby at such a young age. If you and your boyfriend are still together when you're done with school and you both have stable jobs, then give it a shot. Until then, please don't try to get pregnant.
And please, you really should use condoms to avoid this. If not that than you really oughta be on the pill. It's just much much safer this way.
Hope I was helpful,
-Kayla Jay
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