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Last night my best guy friend stopped by around 11 ish or so. Well, I ended up kissing him, dispite the fact he has a girlfriend. I've liked him for so long, and I just had to take a chance because I didn't want to keep wondering what would happen if I hadn't done it.

Well, now I'm not sure what to do. He seemed to like it, I mean he kept asking to stay for a couple more hours, and he invited me to hang out later today. But I'm kind of curious as to what I might expect. He told me he liked it, even though I totally caught him off gaurd.

But where should I go from here?
Should I wait and see what happens?
Or should I try to make another move?

I don't think it'd be wise to make another move. He has a girlfriend & if he truly liked you, he'd dump her & go for you. If he is willing to cheat on his girlfriend now, how do you know he wouldn't do that to you if you decided to date him? Have respect for yourself & go out with someone who wants you & only you. Continuing to see this guy behind his girlfriend's back is going to end in a fight & disappointment on your end.

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(Rating: 5) Thanks, yeah it was more of a spur-of-the-moment thing; I had no intention of trouble until I realized what had happened. Things have worked out though, thanks so much for your advice!
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