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I am 16/f, just to get that out of my way.
Let me just start off by saying, I have been in and out of maybe 6 relationships ever since 9th grade, I am now in 10th, and those have never lasted longer than 2 weeks. Various reasons to be broadly stated.
So I've been off dating field for about 6 months when I meet this great guy and things went good so now we are going out and I am surprise to say that we have been going out for about 3 weeks...(ha yes, 3 weeks isn't long time but it is to me compared to other relationships) and just couple days ago my bf told me, "i know this is a day late(referring to valentines day), but I love you"
and i was COMPLETELY shocked by this. My head is going out of control thinking, how could you love me? how can someone LOVE someone when they known each other for less than a month and have been going out for little over 2 weeks?
I mean i didnt tell him, I just told him that I am really not ready to say I love him, but i really do like him a lot. Which I am glad that he understood perfectly well and wasn't upset in any way.
So I don't regret anything on that, but What my real question is, Is it possible for someone to love someone in that short amount of time?
I mean, I am not doubting his affection for me and his respect for me nor am I really going to ask him but on the back of my mind, I can't help but to wonder, is he really saying that because he mean it?
I mean i did ask if he meant it and he looked at me straight in the eye with serious face...
and also, how do I know if i LOVE him? obviously I have never loved somebody... Yeah i know I am suppose to just "know" if its love but still...
I was thinking of asking him that question... "Define Love"
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Well. Let me start by telling you that there are some people who get in love real fast. And come out of it.maybe he really meant it. Maybe he thought he meant it but really didn't.
You should definetly ask him what love is in his opinion. Just to get to know him alittle more in this topic. Remeber 3 weeks isn't a lot. It all depends on the way you look at it.
You know you love a person when you can't stop thinking about them. When they're always on your mind. When everytime your out with someone else you think about them instead. When every mean word they tell you hurts you more then anything in the world. When life isn't just the same without them. When you get a feeling you never felt before
That's when you know you're in love.
Hope I helped I tried my best!.
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Thanks so much it really helped a lot!!!
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