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Q: I wanted to know why do some boys act mean and nasty to certain girls after they break up. Like they start saying "What are you looking at?" They also start talking about that girl and they don't speak no more or even look the girls way.
Boys are very stubborn. A couple broke up, and the guy doesn't want to make it seem that he is now helpless or weak because of the break-up. He wants to show everybody that he doesn't care (when he really does), and the best way for him to do that is to make fun of you, be mean to you. It really sucks but it's really HIS problem not yours!

I am very sad to tell you that the chances of you two ever becoming friends again are slim. If he is going to act this way then it's going to be impossible. I know it must be hard for you, but try to push him out of your mind. Ignore him and he will ignore you. BUT if he keeps making remarks and making fun of you, tell him off!!! Then he'll shut up!

-AJ

Thank you so much but now we are cool and we get along.

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