wow this was just like me. i would cry and get mad ect becuz i didnt have one and everyone else did. but then i told myself ill get one yea but ill get one when im ready. i told myself that everyday. dont obsess over it. thats what i used to do and then i kinda forgot about it. had fun, hung out with friends. but then i switched schools. and i still wasnt obsessing over about I HOPE I GET A BOYFRIEND HERE!! i just knew ill get one eventually. when God thinks your ready. but i started to like this guy and i got excited because i thought he like me and he did and he was my first boyfriend. so what im trying to say is dont obsess over soenmthing you have no controll over. i believe everyone gets a boyfriend or girlsfriend. no matter what. mentally ill or physically ill. so dont think you never will. enjoy what you have know. i thought something was wrong with me too. nothings wrong with you. and believe it or not most girls get there boyfriend at 13/14. i got mine in the 8th grade. just have fun. dont worry about it all the time. i think God doesnt want you to think about it and obsess over it. complain like some 3 year old. when your ready hell give you one. so dont worry about it. i know you wont believe this advice because i sure didnt but you will. give it a minute. some time to sink in. dont worry over it. just talk to some guys you know get to know them flirt a little. its not ugly or something is wrong. your only 13. that doesnt mean anything. theres nothing else i could say. i just want to tell you i was in your shoes for about a year and a half. i know exaclty what you mean its just hard to explain. i hope you understand what im saying. so feel free to email me about it if you want. i know you dont know me but im here for advice. believe me your gonna cry and get mad but im here if you want to talk to me. really. also i would always talk to my older sister. she told me that she thought the same thing. "o ill nevr get a boyfriend blah blah blah but then before she knew it there he was. just try to have fun get your mind off it. flirt, smile, make yourself availible, have fun, relax, hang with friends, dont worry,and you'll be fine. my email is scdgirl288@yahoo.com. i check it everyday. so if you wanna email me feel free. i know exactly how you feel except mine was in the 7th grade. so just have fun youll get him eventually. dont stress over it. have fun:) dont forget to email me or tell me if you feel better. you'll be okay. dont worry. seriously.
bluebell78:)
scdgirl288@yahoo.com

thank you so much that was the best advice so far!! i didnt really look at it that way before. thank you!! :)

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