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Hey, i'm a young teen who leads a normal life, or about as normal as it gets. i love to help people and hope to some day become a psychologist. You're welcome to ask me anything you want and i'll answer the very best i can.

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I've liked this guy for awhile. neither of us have gone out with anyone before. i was convinced to ask him out, and being the idiot he was he didn't answer, just invited me, my friend and his friend to a chat acting as if the whole thing was a joke. so as i continued to ask if could answer the question my friend was fighting with me saying melissa take a hint the answer is no, get over him, blahblah. the fact is he didn't answer, i don't know what his answer is idk if he's telling me. but even after my friend stopped fighting with me i feel so pressured to get over him. but i don't want to, i don't care if theres no point, it's my life. and he called me yesterday and i answered and he didn't even say anything which makes it even more confusing. i have a right to still like him, it's my feelings, idc about other guys, it's not like i need a bf desperately at this age anyway. but i feel so pressured to get over him and i hate it. i have a right to still like him if I want right?

absolutely, you can like him if you want. the guy probably didn't answer because it was really awkward for him. i suppose there is a possibility that he does like you but it seems a bit slimm. but yes you can still like him if you want. there is no rule that says if you ask someone out and they say no you can't like them anymore so keep at it. maybe he really does have a little something for you. never back down as i like to say, unless of course he straight forward hates you but im sure he doesn't so keep it up, you got balls kid. its a lot harder to ask a guy out than people give us credit for. you have a great quality of bravery.

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(Rating: 5) thank you so much, that made me feel a lot better
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