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Q: Well I don't know. You see, i'm 13. This boy has been my best friend for about two years and we've been together for a year. It's nice and everything. We are real close and know almost everything about eachother and everything. He's different from the rest of the guys i've gone out with. Don't think I am a slut or anything but we are both comfortable being naked around eachother. He trusts me and I trust him. No, this is not my first relationship. Anyhow, he's always there when i need him. Well, he's actually a nice boy and won't take advantage of me or anything like that or trying to get me to have sex with him. I know i'm young and yes i am still a virgin. Most of you are probably thinking "teen love dont have sex with him" Of course i'll be on birth control and have a condem and everything but i'm not sure if i should give up my virginity so young. So what do you people out there think about the whole situation?

If you love him, and he loves you and you BOTH are comfortable with it...then do it. Of course you are going to have protection and all that but if you think it's love then go for it. BUT!!!!

I believe that I will never have sex before I get married because to me it's an intimate thing that should only be done when you and your partner are ABSOLUTELY sure of it, for example MARRIAGE!

You can do what you like. But if you really thought about it. There is a million other guys that you could have sex with. But don't you want your first time to be with someone who has VOWED to be your husband FOR EVA!?

-AJ

Rating: 5

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