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well the guy im really close too, and i like is asking my BEST friend out tomrow, and like im suporting him and stuff
and she knows he knows and she like just started liking him and everyones like didnt you like him first and stuff and im like w/e
but its kinda bugging me
cuz she like is all happy but im hapy for her its just she like brags , and acts like shes everything now and is like im not sure
what to do
should i just let it happen, if i do ill never get a chance with him cuz if she already dated him wel until next year.
she dated like 2 people this year, then my other friends dated everyone else
its not fair, i really want a bf
but i dont think im ever going to get one
help?
tips?
ideas?

Well, you could try telling him just how you feel before he asks her out. If she knows you like him, then she really can't be too upset about it. And if she is, well, she isn't that great a friend.
Or, you could let it happen. Be supportive, even help them get together. When they split up, be there for both of them, but also be clear to your friend that you haven't stopped liking him. Ask her how she would feel about you asking him out, since you liked him before they were ever together. Again, she isn't that great a friend if she gets really upset about it.
This same situation happened to me when I was 16. I actually helped my crush and one of my dearest friends get together. They didn't last long. Then I was hanging out with the guy and he asked me out. We were together for a little while. I still am in contact with the guy, but have lost track of the girl since she has moved a few times and no longer keeps up the blog we all used to post to. But I still consider her a friend.
The important thing is to be honest with them both. If that causes problems, then it is their problem, not yours.

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(Rating: 5) ahw thanks
yeah today i hoooked em up
cuz i knew she really liked him and i didnt want me to hold her back, because she didnt want to date him, and i told her to go for it
xoxo thanks justine
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