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I'm Leah. I'm 16& a sophmore, but very mature for my age. I could actually do very good in school if I actually applied myself, but I don't. I have a boyfriend, Randall and we've been together for over a year now and i love him alotalotalot I'm usually happy because I think lifes too short to be depressed or crying all the time. My friends are my life and I definatly wouldn't be the same without them.

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This is going to be long or no one is going to understand my situation.

Basically I'm 16 & Female: I had this perfect boyfriend (or so it seemed) we dated constant, no breakups, for 17 months. He, too, was 16. We planned so much, we were even getting engaged, it was perfect. Near January of this year, things started getting a little rocky between him & I. See we go to different schools so we never really got to see eachother that often. We planned to meet eachother at the bowling alley, and that night we got in a fight. The fight wasn't really over anything big, he just got mad at me over something & hurt my arm. But I told him that he had anger problems & needed to resolve them. So basically, for the next 3 days he ignored me. He ignored my calls, my texts, my messages, my emails, & he never called me back, returned anything. Then I had gotten on the computer that day & he broke up with me. I was not only mad that it was through the computer, but I was furious because of everything he threw away. A week down the road, he comes back to me & asks for this thing he called "break-up sex" I knew it would have been a mistake for me to have done it, but I wanted him back & I wanted that feeling back. So I agreed to it. Later on, he tells me that he's "talking" to someone & doesn't want to ruin things with her, so he doesn't want to have this "sex." I was hurt. Basically because I still wanted him back. Friday night, I went to the basketball game at his school to meet up with a couple of my friends, and he was there. He wasn't with anyone like he told me he would have been. So he texts me & asks me to meet him outside. We ended up having sex in the backseat of his car. I don't really regret it, but last night he told me that he never would ever get back together with me & that friday night was an accident. What is your all's opinion on this situation?

my bestfriend is going through this same situation and i'll tell you what i tell her,

you just need to stop talking to him, period. it may be hard, but it's for the better. you are basically being used, and you are so much better than that. now i don't know you personally, but i know that you could find someone WAY better who would actually treat you right!

don't let this loser (who breaks up with you over the INTERNET) ruin your life anymore!

i know you can do better :D!

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