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I just had the greatest date ever. I know a guy at school, and we've talked on a few occasions for an hour or two at a time. Anyway, we had a wonderful date tonight, and of course, ended up making out. A lot. We talked a lot too, but ooh my god, i don't know where to get started with the making out part. Anyway, we sat on a stairwell and started making out, and I ended up sitting on his lap, straddling him, which felt so good and comfortable for both of us. But i don't know if I got carried away or not. I was kissing his neck and touching the top of his chest. And when he dropped me off, we made out in the car for a good 15 minutes or so. ANd I don't know...is all of this generally appropriate on a first date, even if you totally get along with the person?

There's no rule out there saying what's appropriate and & what's not appropriate for the first date. It's your personal decision on how far you want to go (& if he's comfortable with it as well.) Since you both seem to be alright with making out, then there should be no problem! If you want MY opinion, I don't think there's anything wrong making out with the person if you're both attracted to each other. (Anything further is out of the question FOR ME.) But others may not be believe in anything on the first date. Like I said, it's YOUR personal choice! Glad you had a good date. :)

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(Rating: 5) Thanks! I feel the same way.. I generally don't mind making out on the first date, only if I'm really into the guy. And yeah, anything else is also out of question. Actually, we're planning to meet up again tonight :)
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