You can call me Kila. Im good at giving advice. A lot of my friends say that Im good at helping people and I should make a career out of it. Heres some advice for everybody: What people think of you don't count but what you think of yourself do, when its about you. If you feel and think you pretty well you are and no one can tell you other wise.
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Age: 16
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To start off, I am 16/f :D
I don't know why but I've been feeling down lately. Bit depressive to be precise. I know I shouldn't feel any sad because I have lot of good thing going on for me. I got pretty decent grades for mid term, my mom's trusting me more, I've got a great boyfriend, made new friends and whatnot.
However, I can't help but to wonder, how long will my relationship last with him? Just for record, I never had relationship longer than 2 weeks. Previous relationships just ended weirdly. It was either me dumping a guy because I kinda got over them, which is bad but it was better than me just hanging on to them for the sake of their sadness that might come, or it just ended with neither of us breaking up. So I decided to give my self some break so I haven't had any relationships for over 6 months before my current boyfriend. And this new guy I'm going out with, I've been going out with him for a week and 3 days, so it has yet to hit 2 weeks. He's great and all but I don't know... Little things that gets to me. Like he doesn't talk to me at all online when he's on AIM, I mean he kind of ignores me until I IM him first, and when I saw him today at work, he didn't hug me or kiss me goodbye. He appologized later on the phone something like..."I am sorry I didnt kiss you goodbye, my workers would've gave me a hardtime" or something like that, meaning pretty much the same but I can't remember what he exactly said. But obviously he doesn't care if other people see's because he can apparently kiss me in some restaurants and whatnot out in public, and in front of his best friend and my friends, so I am probably making a big deal when it's not because I tend to do that sometimes. So I want to confront him about that, which I am even not sure about how I am going to say without sounding like I am mad... So basically, I am just lost... I am not even sure I'm mad or disappointed, confused. What's going on in my head? (link)
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To keep a relationship going is talking even through you feel as if you making a big deal out of something still ask him about it. Don't think that your relationship going to end early because of your pervious relationship because all the time you thinking of that and not thinking about the relationship you got now and what can make it better you going to belive things is worse didn't it really is. But please talk to him about things that sometime bother you and if he don't like when you talk to him about things he was not good for you anyway.
Hope this help
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Thank you so much for the advice!!! It rocks!
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