HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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14/f there is this one guy in my school that i really like and i dont know if he likes me or not. he does try to show off to me alittle but i still dont know. i also like him but then i dont like him. this has been happening ever since 6th grade. i like him then i dont off and on for almost three years now.
does this sound like i really like him or it is just a phase?
I cant take him out of my mind either.
I AM SO CONFUSED. (link)
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what your going through is a very normal stage that happens to almost all girs at your age.Its kind of called desperation,which means you see everyone around you in love with boyfreinds and all and the guy you now "think" you like is the only one there for you to take out your kept in emotions out on.And to prove what im saying is right,you yourself said that sometimes you dont like him and its an on and off thing,meaning that deep inside you know if he liked you,you wouldnt really care as much,you just like him for the sake of LIKING someone.Thats why you sometimes you get over him,you dont really like him,hes just there.This is normal and most girls feel like this at your age.
aah i understand,what i understand is that you do like him but since your not sure if he likes you back you stop liking him and get to another guy.My advice then will be that you should just put your attention on another guy till you find out that this one likes you.
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that was good advise but i dont think it is right. not many of my friends are going out with guys and it is not that i may think that i like him it is that i really like him[ enough to almost ask him out] but then i think wait what if he doesnt like me that goes on for a while and then i start likeing someone else to stop my self from getting confused. I AM CONFUSED AGAIN. Thanx
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