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Hi I'm the same person who asked about my crushes birthday.. and well sorry if this is long but i'm just soo confused and you can proabaly guess that i'me 15/f anyways...
I met him on the phone because my crush is friends with my bff. so she kinda introduced us. (and i already check to make sures eh didn't like him)but then that week end i suggest that him me and my bff go see a movie so we did with 2 other friends of ours. well i sat next to him =] and we talked (personally i think we kinda flited) he bbought me a icee (but he said it was his mother money)so then that was basically that night.
and then the next week-end me and my bff were hangin out and we called him and i tired to get my bff to walk up to jack and the box where they were at and he tired to get his friend to walk over to diebegers (where me and my bff wehre at) but long story short i had my dad take me (and only me) to the school behind his house and me, my crush and his 2 frineds hung out for awhile. then that night me my bff and him talked on the phone for about and hour...next weekend i think i just talked to him on the phone for a little bit. and then last week i talked to him on the phone a little bit, but then usually when i talk to him on the phone his friends are there and him and his friends and my (and mybe my friends) call eachother and annoying all our friends. but the this weekend i called him at about 4 30 seeing if he wanted to go to a movie with me and my 2 friends but he said he didn't want to and that his friend didn't want to and that his ankel hurt. so basically he just didn't wanna go.
(err i'm sorry this is sooo long) so basically i tried to hang out with him but got pretty much rejected. and i never see him at school =/ and i only talk to him on the week-end if him and his friend are together. but i never call him other than that and we never really talk other than that. so i think i'm attacted to him but idk for sure and if i am i've tried to get to know him better and form a relationship but its just not happening. an di'm just lost with what to do. but i'm going to force myself to call him on the 10th..his b-day..and hopefully he won't be busy and him and i can talk =]
but yeah..anyways again i'm sooo sorry it was soo long and i'll take any adive you have for me becaue right now i have absoutly noo clue what to do (link)
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he sounds like hes giving mixed signals..lol confusing!!
dont give up though. if he flirted with you at all then it means that there still could be intrest and he just doesnt know how to handle liking someone. in this case because you dont know if he likes you. you dont wanna be too forceful with hanging out. so i think that merely calling him on his birthday is a good idea
be kind of flirty when you talk to him. say things like i had fun hanging out with you a few weekends ago.. if he says he had fun too and it sounds genuine then bring up hanging out again. if not then he probably just doesnt want anything more than a friendship.
and by the way..nothing is too long for me..lol
i know this isnt much help but its really just something that you have decide yourself...its whether you're willing to notify him of your intrest or not..i hope it turns out okay
please keep me updated with the situation
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okay thanks a bunch..i'll try to do my best its just whenever i tell a guy i like him it always blows up in my face (but that only been 2 times) and i'm just worried if i do tell him later on and he doesn't like me back we won't be friends and it'll all be weirdd grr this age is hard! hah
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