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one of my friends, sarah, used to be big into drugs and that, but when she met me, she stopped.she promised me that she wouldnt do drugs again, because she knows how against it i am, and because she didnt want to do them anymore. about six months later, she told me she had smoked a cigarette. i was really mad, but i was glad she told me. she once again promised me she was done with all that. about a month later, she told me she had smoked weed and smokes cigartees twice again. that time i didnt talk to her for like a day, then she, ONCE again, promised me she wouldnt. that was about a week ago, then yesterday, she told me she got "baked" over the weekend and smoked a bucn of cigarettes. she told me that she didnt want to do it again, ect., all the bullshit she told me before. i got reallyyyyyyyy mad at her, and told me not to talk to me until she gets help, comletely stops, and tells her mom about the weekend, because her mom doesnt know. is this being too hard on her? i hate the fact that she does this stuff, and she knows how against it i am, and she always says that she doesnt want to do it, that its an "accedent". i dont fully believe her on it all, but i just want her to stop. i know its not my responsibility to make her stop, but she wont do it on her own. so i just need some imput on if im being too hard on her or not.
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i've been in sarah's situation before, you need to support her, not jus get mad and make her pick you, or the drugs, because honestly it's really hard to stop. She probably really does want to stop, but there's just that little voice that tells her that this will be the last time. each time she does it she gets more and more addicted, tell her that you're strongly against it, make sure she knows it. but if she won't stop try to get her help, like finding out where some meetings are.
but then you could also just say that it's not your life... it's hers. you should just tell her that if she does do them she shouldn't do to many and try really hard to convince her not to get into anything stronger. and just leave it at that. live and let live.
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