I'm the best at everything I do. Especially my girlfriend, she is better than all of you.
Gender: Male Occupation: Full time student Age: 16 Member Since: February 4, 2007 Answers: 49 Last Update: March 11, 2007 Visitors: 6358
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one of my friends, sarah, used to be big into drugs and that, but when she met me, she stopped.she promised me that she wouldnt do drugs again, because she knows how against it i am, and because she didnt want to do them anymore. about six months later, she told me she had smoked a cigarette. i was really mad, but i was glad she told me. she once again promised me she was done with all that. about a month later, she told me she had smoked weed and smokes cigartees twice again. that time i didnt talk to her for like a day, then she, ONCE again, promised me she wouldnt. that was about a week ago, then yesterday, she told me she got "baked" over the weekend and smoked a bucn of cigarettes. she told me that she didnt want to do it again, ect., all the bullshit she told me before. i got reallyyyyyyyy mad at her, and told me not to talk to me until she gets help, comletely stops, and tells her mom about the weekend, because her mom doesnt know. is this being too hard on her? i hate the fact that she does this stuff, and she knows how against it i am, and she always says that she doesnt want to do it, that its an "accedent". i dont fully believe her on it all, but i just want her to stop. i know its not my responsibility to make her stop, but she wont do it on her own. so i just need some imput on if im being too hard on her or not.
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You're not being hard on her. If she really values your friendship then she will realize that you are strongly against drugs and she will choose. But you should be too hard on her, this is probably a very hard thing for her, and it's hard to quit. Give her support but make sure she knows that you're against it and you won't tolerate it.
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thanks for you imput. its much appreciated=]
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