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okay, my mom just told me that im getting a shot that prevents cervical cancer, and i decided to look online and see what it was.

i have had sex before and im under 18 years old, and they said that some signs of cervical cancer are:
Abnormal vaginal bleeding or a significant unexplained change in your menstrual cycle.
Bleeding when something comes in contact with your cervix, such as during sexual intercourse or the insertion of a diaphragm.
Pain during sexual intercourse.
Abnormal vaginal discharge containing mucus that may be tinged with blood.

and ive had those happen to me. it really freaked me out, and im scared if i have it.
what do i say to the doctor? my parents cannot know ive had sex! i would be murdered. has anyone had this before??

and if you have, please tell me what you did and what happened. thank you im very nervous

Your parents don't need to know. Many of the symptoms have nothing to do with sex. Tell your mom about those ones and that you are a bit worried and would like to be tested. At the doctor's office, tell your mom you would feel more comfortable if she wasn't there, since it is rather awkward. Use that time to talk to the doctor about sex. If you ask your doctor not to say anything to your parents, that should be respected.
Whatever happens, getting tested is very important. Also, those are symptoms of many things, so listen to what your doctor says and don't worry too much about cancer unless your doctor gives you that diagnosis. Let us know how it goes!

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