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This guy and I have liked each other for so long and this summer was awesome we were like gf and bf and then things died out. Like every month i would phone him to see how he was and we would talk for ages and yet he wouldnt talk to me in school. So A few weeks ago i invited him over and honestley its like awesome we were all cuddly and like a couple and then he left. Then at school, ignores me and then sometimes he talks to me and he's like 'u ok?' and i've been like 'umm yeh' but he promised to take me to the cinema and he didnt and then he promised to come over on Friday and he didnt. Should I confront him, thing is if i do- i will have to be drastic and say ' Look if you care for me, if you really care, you will put effort in as a friend, otheriwse i cant see this friendship working out?' and im scared he will be like 'whatever' and not talk to me again. He said to me ' we will always be friends if not more' and he's a sincere person- im really confused.

I think you should definitely confront him. Just letting things go along as they are isn't going to get you anywhere. You're going to have to do something about it or things will just stay this way. Chances are if he still wants to be friends with you, he wil listen and explain his actions. You need to talk to him about keeping his promises and why he ignores you at school. If hes going to be friends with you, he's going to have to associate with you outside of school and in school. If he chooses to instead ignore you and break off your friendship, then move on and find better people. As heartbreaking as it will be, you can get better friends who will always be there for you and keep their promises. But if he's as sincere and such as you say, then i think things will work out for you guys.

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