my name is lindsey and i'm 16 years old. my friends are always giving me trouble. so, most likely i'll need advice on that a lot. i like to help people and give advice, so, if anyone needs it, i'm known to give good advice.
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16/f. I've been best friends with Maria for 3 years. We have an amazing bond, and we're so close. This year, however, we don't have any classes together, so naturally we don't talk as much. We are still just as close though. But there is this girl, Tina. She's been okay friends with us in the past, more so with Maria, but this year they have like 4 classes together. and here's how their relationship is. Tina will go and visit Maria at work for hours. She skips basketball games to go hang out at Marias work in hopes that they will get to talk. She leaves these really long comments on Maria's myspace that are talking about how Maria is the only person that makes Tina happy, and that she appreciates her so much. It's really weird. She always gives Maria these long hugs. She recently came out to both of us as Bisexual. Now, honestly, Maria and I both wonder if Tina has a crush on her.
Now, sometimes I think its ridiculous, but I can't help but get a little jealous. And I think Tina tries to push me out. Like, online, she'll talk to me and say "You know, me and maria really have become close this year. We really are best friends now". And Maria has a note box, and she told me look at the note from a boy she likes, while she was in the shower, and I was looking and couldn't find it, and found one from her and Tina, where Maria told her about her mom cheating on her dad. She said "I'm not going to tell *me* because I just don't ever wanna bring it up again" but I can't help but be hurt that she wouldn't tell me. She also tells Tina things before me, like all about boys she likes and stuff. I know they don't have THAT much talking time in class. It just hurts my feelings.
1. Do you think Tina has a Crush on Maria?
2. What should I do about my jealousy?
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if all of a sudden when tina meets maria, she comes out about being bi, then most likely she likes her. plus, spending so much time together and all. i would say that 99.9% sure she likes. her.
about your jealousy, have you tried talking to maria. thats the best way to go about things. almost all the time, it works. just sit her down and talk to her. if your really best friends, then maria will understand and try her hardest to make more time for you or lay off hanging with tina so much.
hope it works out.
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