21, f and not US/EN.
I'm really confused and I really need some advice. I hope this question will not be banned or deleted, as far as I can tell it doesn't contain any illegal or obscene content.
So here's the "plot": How would you _mature_ people out there rate a (still) innocent "flirt" with an University teacher? The age range is something like: I'm 21, he's around his 40s. We're both single, we're both geeks in our field and we somehow sympathize each other. Hell, even my colleagues noticed that... Even if they don't know I've been having such a huge crush on this guy for more than a year... Nothing beyond this stage, but I feel it's kind of possible to push this relation to a higher level. (He seems to be a very shy and sensitive guy so I guess I shall be the one to do the first step - *if* there'll ever be a first step, that is...) What are your thoughts on this? Could this be considered "un-ethical"? Or bad, or... whatever?
I'd appreciate your feedback, since I can't think of anyone to whom I could ask this question.
dont do it it just going to be a big mess i would just say do nothing go to a party and find someone elese..you can get kicked out and he can loose his job!
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Thanks for your answer. I don't want to cause problems, of course, but... hell I never go to parties, LOL! =) This amused me a lot. (I mean... after all, I "starved" for this guy for more than a year, so going to a party is definetely not the thing I'll do, but... you're right I shouldn't go on.)
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