Hey, my name is Sam.I know I just got the advice column, but i give people advice all of the time. I may only be 14, but I'm knowledgable.I'm used to my friends having issues, and I try to be there for them. You can ask me whatever you'd like, and I'll try to give you the best answer possible. So you can either leave me a message here, or IM me, which ever is easier for you. My SN is smithersssx. =]
Gender: Female
Location: Foxborough
Occupation: High School
Age: 14
AIM: smithersssx
Member Since: January 4, 2007
Answers: 4
Last Update: February 1, 2007
Visitors: 912
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21, f and not US/EN.
I'm really confused and I really need some advice. I hope this question will not be banned or deleted, as far as I can tell it doesn't contain any illegal or obscene content.
So here's the "plot": How would you _mature_ people out there rate a (still) innocent "flirt" with an University teacher? The age range is something like: I'm 21, he's around his 40s. We're both single, we're both geeks in our field and we somehow sympathize each other. Hell, even my colleagues noticed that... Even if they don't know I've been having such a huge crush on this guy for more than a year... Nothing beyond this stage, but I feel it's kind of possible to push this relation to a higher level. (He seems to be a very shy and sensitive guy so I guess I shall be the one to do the first step - *if* there'll ever be a first step, that is...) What are your thoughts on this? Could this be considered "un-ethical"? Or bad, or... whatever?
I'd appreciate your feedback, since I can't think of anyone to whom I could ask this question. (link)
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I think it would be a bad idea to pursue the relationship. If anyone found out that there might be something between the two of you he could be fired. and there is a slight age difference of at lease 19 years...i know age doesnt really matter but it might make matters worse if you did have a relationship..so just think over this before you make a decision because you want it to be the right one..make sure your positive he likes you because everything would be severley awkward if he doesnt
hope it helped..Sam
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Rating: 5
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Thanks for your answer, Sam :) (No, it's not a relationship right now and never was. It's just a "common sympathetic ground" if I can call it that way.)
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