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17/M
I know I've asked similar questions but I don't think I've been asking the right question. Sex vs.Love, I'd like some advice. In the battle between sex and love that I've been fighting I feel like I love her, I cry when I talk to her because I miss her. I haven't cried in 4 years until I started going out with her. But at the same time, I really miss her touch and what we do. Whenever I see her we do something to do with sex. Is there something else we can do? Is this excessive? We see eachother every weekend. In this scenario I just need to know, what is greater, sex or love?
If you love her then .. whether you two have sex or not it shouldn't matter to you. If she decided not to have sex any more and wait til marriage. Since you're completely in love with her then you wouldn't mind and respect her decision. Sex is a physical thing. Its great to do it. But Love is a more emotional thing. Love and sex doesn't go hand in hand. Love is when you care for that person endlessly. You put their happiness before yours. All you want to see is for the person you love to be happy even if it kills you inside. You're not selfish when you love someone. You're able to open up to the person you love. There's no secrets between you two.
Sex is something more physical. Of course if you both love one another ... you two want to be close to one another and be intimately. But don't let sex overpower the relationship. Love is about honesty, communication, and trust.
when you two see one another.. you guys can talk about anything. You can tell her something she nvr knoe about you.. and she can do the same.
but you guys can have sex too.. just not a lot.
I can't tell you which one is better sex or love. its all on your opinions and how you look at it. You can see it in a diff way than I do. But I can try to give you the best examples and my opnions.
hope I help =].
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thank u very much for your opinion. It was very helpful.
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