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I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 20. (I'm a girl by the way)We've been together for about 4 1/2 months and I love him so much. I think i'm ready to take the next step with him, and by that I mean sex. I'm a virgin still and he knows that, so he's never pressured me into doing anything with him I wasn't ready for. He's been really sweet and understanding.However I can also tell it's hard for him. I'm kind of the first girl he's really commited to, he used to be ...I don't know how to put it, a player. Although he never pressures me to have sex with him I can tell he's been getting kind of frustrated. I mean when things get to intimate (I'll put it that way) I'll just stop so things don't escalate further than I want to go. I want to take the next step with him but i'm scared, for more than one reason. I'm scared that he'll compare me to other girls or leave me for someone more experianced if I do. He's been with tons of girls. I'v had 4 or 5 boyfriends, but I never once thought of having sex with them. It wasn't serious enough. I'm afraid that the morning after things will be wierd and akward, and i'm also scared that it will hurt. How much does it hurt when you first have sex? Should I talk to him. Is 4 months to soon to be thinking about sleeping with another person. I'm really confused on what to do here if you can't already tell. Please help! (link)
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Ok...so you are ready...but i don't think you should. You have held out this long why ruin your virginity with a guy who has "done it" with many other girls. But if you decied that he is the one you want he will wait for you to be married when it will be the most special moment in your life...and you will be so proud if you wait because he was your first. I know it is too early to tell if he is the one you want to be with forever, but if he isn't then later you will have nothing to regret when you are married.
-Milly203
[{(P.S. >>> THINK AHEAD on how you will feel when you are married and your husband is not your FIRST)}]
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