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Q: In my opinion, I don't think I have a bad personality. I'm not stuck up, I don't cause any drama, I'm honest, I can keep secrets, and I'm nice unless someone gives me a reason not to be. I mean, I can be "mean" sometimes with guys except I'm kidding and they know it. I'm not shy, but I'm not incredibly outgoing -- I'm just normal there. Plus, all of my friends say I'm hilarious. Most of my friends, who are girls tell, me I'm pretty and I've had some of my guy friends tell me I'm "hot". I'm not stupid, but I'm not a genius. Since pretty much everyone but me cares about this at my school...people say I'm popular (I hate that word and I don't care about "popularity" just to make that clear). The thing is, I've never had a boyfriend -- NOT ONCE. I don't get it. Every single one of my friends has at least had ONE boyfriend sometime in their life, but me. No, I don't only want one cause "everyone" has one. In your opinion, does it sound like I'm doing something wrong? Why can't I get a boyfriend?
you can't obtain a boyfriend because what you described is average. you are everyone else.

you also aren't reaching out and trying to get a boyfriend. this isn't the fifty's, so if you wait around for a boy to make his move, you'll get nothing. don't wait.

also, by the way you said most of your friends were girls, i'm guessing that, all of your friends are girls.

unless you do something to make a guy become really into you, you won't dazzle them by sitting in a corner with all the other girls waiting to be asked.

**EDIT, i know what you meant, i was just saying you were lying.

no, i said that most of my friends that were girls said i was pretty and some of my friends that were guys said i was hot. half of my friends are girls and the other half are guys. thanks anyways

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