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Q: 14/f.

My boyfriend is 16/m.

Ok; my boyfriend and I have talked it over, and we are ready to have sex. I don't want to go into too many details, because that's not what this question is asking. I was wondering what pre-cautions we could take to not get me pregnate.[sp?] Like, if he gets off, should we change the condom? It's both our first time and I am very nervous. He dosen't seem to be, but I was just wondering.

p.s. Birth control isn't an option.

Dont do it. you cant even spell pregnant. your 14 and just no, im pretty sure he is going to use you for sexual needs. please please please please do not do it. and if you go ahead and do it without thinking about the aftermass use a condom, and if its too big wait and get another one that fits. but i suggest for your future to NOT do it. please.

Rating: 3

The only thing I didn't agree with, was the "im pretty sure he is going to use you for sexual needs" part. We talked it over, and he didn't want me to feel like he was using me so we are going to wait for a while.

Thanks though.

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hi. my name is natalie, im 17 and im really good advice giver, all my friends say so. I've been through a lot so i can probably relate to you. Ask me anything, i wont judge or laugh just be honest.

I cannot give you the formula for success, but I can give you the formula for failure--which is:
Try to please everybody.

really just express yourself and dont care about what others think, its a waste of time and they're opinion is not as important as yours.

i truly hope i can help.

_natalie_