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Q: 17/f.
So one of my best best guy friends and I had sex last month, (my first time) and ever since then he and I have been acting the same-platonic. we hang out all the time and I talk to him at least once a day. We're really good friends and I love spending time with him. But ever since we slept together we haven't even mentioned it. We kind of avoid the subject.
Here's my problem; I really want to be friends with benefits with him and have sex again. So how can I kind of hint to him that I'm "in need of attention" or something without seeming like all I want is sex? I'm almost ready to just attack him! lol. Please help. Thanks in advance!

Well you could say something that hints but lets him actually make the first move. You could try saying something about when you did sleep woth him, maybe telling him how much you liked it. Or how hott you are and would like another round.

Sorry this is a hard question!
Hope it works!

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hi. my name is natalie, im 17 and im really good advice giver, all my friends say so. I've been through a lot so i can probably relate to you. Ask me anything, i wont judge or laugh just be honest.

I cannot give you the formula for success, but I can give you the formula for failure--which is:
Try to please everybody.

really just express yourself and dont care about what others think, its a waste of time and they're opinion is not as important as yours.

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_natalie_