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Q: ok my girlfriend and i have been haveing sexual intercourse for about a month now.. I took her virginity and she took mine.. Well she was wanting a baby and i as well was but i was haveing second thoughts because i was worried about what our parents might say. Well i went ahead and did. And now i think she may be pregnant because she has so many symptoms of it. like for instance. Breast's being tender, Stomach aches, Random tiredness, Breast swelling, And moodyness. And i was wanting to know how i should go about telling our parents if she truely is.. Please Help Me..

If i were you i would of totally waited. having a kid is not a good idea when im guessing you guys are in highschool? its a life ruiner. but i guess you cant go back in time. you should get her tested for pregnancy and if she really is go to plan parenthood. its great help. if you dont live one theres no other way but to tell them the truth. hope it all works out.

--natalie.

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Yea your right we are both in highschool and i know we should have waited.. Im just so freaked out about how to tell our parents because her mom and dad are VERY strict and my parents i really dont know how they would react becuase they are usually very supportive but her dad is kinda crazy lol with anger problems and im affraid of how he will react toward her. He used to phisically abuse her. Thanx for the help tho

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hi. my name is natalie, im 17 and im really good advice giver, all my friends say so. I've been through a lot so i can probably relate to you. Ask me anything, i wont judge or laugh just be honest.

I cannot give you the formula for success, but I can give you the formula for failure--which is:
Try to please everybody.

really just express yourself and dont care about what others think, its a waste of time and they're opinion is not as important as yours.

i truly hope i can help.

_natalie_