I smile,laugh,love,and live in the moment. I don't think lifes worth wasteing on a boring day. I am happy and with who I am. lifes about friends who hold on to you,the people who you love and return it. I don't believe in changing for anyone, i can say that everything happens for a reason and if its not a good ending,then its not over. I Love music, and interested in anything to do with style,makeup,and fashion. I also love heroes, south park, and family guy :]. I'm done with the fake people,i've basically dropped all who never cared. and i'm actually happy,i feel so much better ! I've been through it,the friends,family,and the whole finding yourself. And i think Marylous Coffee is bomb.I have the most amazing friends; and i'm so lucky to have those crazy bitches >:}.I'm obbsessed with Harry Potter
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My OLD best friend was the greatest for 3 years, or so I thought, I found out she lied and wasn't even my real friend for the first 2 years, and she does little things just to make herself feel better and me feel worse. This may seem kinda stupid and conseted but after being taken advantage of for 3 years it's a big thing/ But anyway, I realised she's really insecure, not that pretty or cool, and I'm MUCH prettier than her. SO after she told all these people lies about me I stoped being her friends, and made friends with my best friend in the world Meg, and we're so good together and we get along great but being friends with her and not my old friend has comprimised my friendships with a lot of my old friends. SO that makes me really sad, and now I'm becoming kind of popular I guess.. and this may seem great but I kind of feel like I'm becoming a snob and that my new friends aren't for real. PLUS with this new like I'm going to have to leave my old life in the dust, but I just don't think I can do that, but I CAN'T go back to my old life because I was SO mistreated. I can't help but feel torn and stuck in the middle... what should I do? (link)
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ugh,truly your the first person i met here who isnt like "omg i want to be popular and have friends blahblahblah" hah sorry. anywayss,you found out about what your old best friend did,how do you know your other old friends didnt do the same? if your "best (old)" friend did that to you,then i would think that the other did that to you as well. I guess if you think about it (and it SUCKS) your friends with one,your friends with them all. and thats just horrible if people only want to be your friend because the most popular girl in school becomes your friend. not saying thats the case,,ah im off topic,sorry xD. ok,but really,your best friend meg seems muc better. and you know,maybe the people in the new group you have are likeing you -bedcause they like you,really, this doesnt seem like a hard situtaion. if you feel like your becomeing a snob,you shouldnt,because its really a good thing to be makeing new friends. you deserve to be known,after all the things you've gone through. stick with your new friends. if you dont feel there real,test them. ask them if they'd want to sleep over,hang out,anything. its a good way to get to know people. well,if anyone really cared about you in your old group,they'd talk to you,right? they'd say something. did anyone? for those who did,stick with them as well. or if they all dont like you anymore (which is really bitchy for everyone to follow with the fight) just say you dont care,your happier now and your sick of being the under-dog. also,try to re-constuct friendships that were broken during the fight,to the people that seem like they dident get to into it. this is confusing,but i cant really explain it in any other way. welllll i tryed. good luck :]
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