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Alright so im 13/f and my cousin is 23/f. shes been dating her boyfriend for 2 years and she broke up with him and so he killed himself. he warned her that if she broke up with him he'd kill himself. hes only 23! or was..
anyway, him and her dad didnt get along very well. i feel so bad for him bcuz he was brokenhearted but he was a HUGE JERK! His parents are blaming it on HER! I feel so bad 4 her and im not gonna get into details of what he said but he was like "dont worry baby it's not your fault, you arent doing this to me" just to make her feel worse! what can i do to make her feel better? im kinda shy around her cuz i barely know her but i wanna make her feel better please help!

I don't mean to sound mean, but you guys are ten years apart. She's probably going through some really deep and sad emotions right now. I think she would be better off going to a therapist to talk about it or a psychologist. It doesn't seem like something you could help your cousin with (no offense) especially since you mentioned that you barely know her. If you see her just be friendly to her and i'm sure she wouldn't want to talk about so don't mentioin it.

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(Rating: 3) ok thank you!! i appreciate it!!lots!!
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