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Rae is my middle name. I'm a strong believer in karma. I'm not here to screw with anyone, I'm here to give and get advice.
Gender: Female
Location: pennsylvania
Age: 16
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Alright so im 13/f and my cousin is 23/f. shes been dating her boyfriend for 2 years and she broke up with him and so he killed himself. he warned her that if she broke up with him he'd kill himself. hes only 23! or was..
anyway, him and her dad didnt get along very well. i feel so bad for him bcuz he was brokenhearted but he was a HUGE JERK! His parents are blaming it on HER! I feel so bad 4 her and im not gonna get into details of what he said but he was like "dont worry baby it's not your fault, you arent doing this to me" just to make her feel worse! what can i do to make her feel better? im kinda shy around her cuz i barely know her but i wanna make her feel better please help! (link)
put your shyness aside and be there for her. sit her down and explain to her that it's not her fault. people with correct state of minds are able to move on with their lives, it's just a normal characteristic in people. we forgive and forget. the boyfriend did this upon himself and no one should blame your cousin for HIS actions. he was just too weak to go on with life. tell your cousin she's stronger than anyone. tell her that whatever her exboyfriend's parents say are bogus. they should be more mature about this and not blame your cousin for their son's actions. i hope i helped and i'm deeply sorry about the situation.


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thank you soooooo MUCH! I really needed help and u gave it to me! i really appreciate it, thanks again =)




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