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I'm full of random information, and I've found it to be veryyy helpful giving advice =] Plus I have ALOT of life experience so I feel that I could really help with anything. I won't lecture or judge you, because I am really trying to help you and answer your question. I know everybody says this but I really have been through it all, from family, relationship, and health prolems - I've been there. I'm only 17 but I feel like everything I've been through has matured me beyond my years. Chances are I can relate to your problems and tell you what really works. Feel free to ask me anything and i'll get back to you as quickly as possible x3
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My sister has loads of anger problems and for the past six years she has caused a lot of tension in our family. During this time I've always been the 'good one' but recently my Dad has been taking things out on me more and more. I admit that I'm not always as well behaved as I should be, but it's not like I'm worse than any other average teen. Now even when I haven't done anything wrong my Dad will be unreasonable and start shouting and swearing. I always try and be mature and walk away from the situation then come back and talk things through calmly later but 9 times out of 10 he will refuse to admit that he has been wrong and usually he won't even listen to what I have to say.
I know that he's under a lot of stress from work and my sister which has also put his relationship with my Mum has been put under strain but I'm finding it increasingly hard to deal with it. It's got to the point where I'll say something completely politely and innocently and he'll start yelling and cause a huge family argument for no reason.
What can I do? I've tried talking to him, my Mum and my sister many times but it makes no difference. We've also completed several sessions with a family counciller but that only made things worse.
you should not be so harsh in your rating
we are trying to help you
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I wasn't harsh on my rating, I gave you a 4. That's not a bad rating. I gave someone else a 2 because it wasn't helpful.
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