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Q: Hi! I am 18 years old and still a virgin. My boyfriend and I tried out anal sex for the first time and the condom broke without us realizing it and he ejaculated. I'm not sure if there was sperm around the anus b/c it was bloody. As soon as we realized what had happend I wiped what I could away from front to back and with a different towel each time. Then I grabbed some hand sanitizer and wiped it from front to back as well. I had read online that hand sanitizer will kill sperm instantly. Then I ran down to the bathroom and peed and squeezed as much sperm out of me as I could. My period last month started on the 27th which means I am now on the 26th day of my cycle. What do you think my risk of pregnancy is?
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It's true that people have gotten pregnant from sperm that's just barely in the vaginal opening, but you've got a lot of things going for you as far as NOT getting pregnant. That includes the "time of the month" especially. Women ovulate 14 days before their periods start, so your "unsafe" days should have been long over. And the way you handled things, it's highly unlikely that any little swimmers found their way home, so to speak.
Are you having anal intercourse so that you don't have to worry about birth control? Since you and your boyfriend are becoming really, really intimate (I think anal sex, personally, is more intimate than regular sex) you should think about getting some birth control. Neither of you will want to have anal sex all of the time! Love, gigi
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Yeah we will not be doing anything like that ever agian. We were trying anal sex out b/c we don't want to have actual sex until we are married. Also it what happend has scared us both. I think it was God telling us what we were doing was wrong until after we are married at least I hope that is all it is. I will not be unworried until I start my period. I hope it comes soon. Thanks for your answer though. I did alot of research on other sites and came to the same conclusion as you. So hopefully it all works out for the best. Thanks agian!
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I have had what I term a "soap opera life". In other words, I've seen it all. Almost.
I work in health care and I'm as old as the hills (not that old, I guess--but I'm definitely not a kid) so feel free to ask whatever you like.
NOTE: I AM NOT MY OWN FAVORITE COLUMNIST (SEE BELOW)!!!! I just hit the wrong button...
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Website: Gender: Female Location: AZ via IL,MD,MO,VA,WV,PA,TX Occupation: health care worker Member Since: December 30, 2006 Answers: 69 Last Update: January 21, 2007 Visitors: 5504
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