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im going to make this a short as possible lol . alright so ive liked this kid for about a year and about a week ago we were at the same party i got totallly hammered and went back to his house, we had sex. i lost my virginity to him. he told some of his friends they told theres, untill my brother found out. my brother punched the kid in the face, and now he wont even look at me. i dont knowww what to doo, he told my friend he wasnt pissed but i can tell the whole situtation is still on his mind and bothering him. losing my vriginity was a big deal, drunk or not. i would talk to him but i already know that i wouldnt know the right things to say and i would totally freeze up. I NEED HELP.
thanks.
and if this helps you out:
im 16/f.
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I know you are worried about the way he is acting towards you now, but I am wondering why you aren't more upset with him for telling all of his friends about what should have been a private experience between the two of you. After all, isn't that bragging? And he's bragging about having sex with a virgin who had too much to drink. Some would say that he took advantage of you, but since you like him so much, I know you don't feel that way. All in all, it's better to lose your virginity to someone you've really liked for a long time if you've had too much to drink to really make what you know is a good choice. Did you use protection?--I hope so.
As for what to say...I would apologize for the way my brother acted, and then ask him why he told everyone about it.
He might be avoiding you because he's embarrassed by the way he has acted. If that's the case, and you really like him, it's important to talk about what happened.
I hope everything works out for you. Love, gigi
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I have had what I term a "soap opera life". In other words, I've seen it all. Almost.
I work in health care and I'm as old as the hills (not that old, I guess--but I'm definitely not a kid) so feel free to ask whatever you like.
NOTE: I AM NOT MY OWN FAVORITE COLUMNIST (SEE BELOW)!!!! I just hit the wrong button...
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Website: Gender: Female Location: AZ via IL,MD,MO,VA,WV,PA,TX Occupation: health care worker Member Since: December 30, 2006 Answers: 69 Last Update: January 21, 2007 Visitors: 5511
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