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i did the cabbage diet, the original version from Poland, and i lost 7 pounds in 6 days. it's an unhealthy diet since you don't eat carbs, but you should only do it for 1 week at a time. And most people say its impossible to keep the weight off, but I prove them wrong.



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13 going on 14/f

kay, im pretty sure that some of ya`ll had read my enteries about him lately .. my bestfriend i fell for him .. he likes my bestfriend and my bestfriend likes him back also.. so i had let her have him, yeah okay .. so on w/ the story. i like this guy a whole lot.. and my bestfriend my "twinnie" cause we have so much in common & we're so much alike that's why we call ourselves twinnies.. so then yeahh my twinnie knows that i like him too .. but then each day when i talk to her, it seems like she cares less and less everyday.. she says that shes taking risks to be w/ him .. including losing her friends except for me.. but she doesn't know how much this is hurting me.. js thinking about it makes me wanna cry about it. i've waited for him for so long .. and i keep saying to myself that their my bestfriends & that i should be happy for them and maybe in the future i can have a chance but yet mine & his friendship is too good, cause he basically tells me EVERY SINGLE THING. and i dont wanna lose that either.. its kinda hard to explain.. but i hope yall know what i meann, because he doesn't know that i like him .. and i don't really want to tell him that i do either, because yannoe .. its kinda gonna be awkward.. for us .. because i know that he likes my twinnie and he talks about her to me on the phone EVERY NIGHT .. yess that's how close we are. I can't really take it anymore .. i wanna let go of him .. but then i cant because i promised him that ill always hold on to his hand no matter what. Help me & please give me some advice.. i've been through this for too long, i can't take it anymore. i want to move on but i cant, because i don't want to leave him... he wants me by his side =T i even pray & wish at 11:11 >.

Communication is the key here.
Your "twinnie" is actually willing to sacrifice some of her friends for one guy? That's not too bright. A wise person once told me, Chicks before dicks. You need to talk with her. Friends are forever, she won't be with that one guy forever. Expecially since she's 13/14 years old. Tell her EXACTLY how you feel. If she's your best friend and you can truly tell her everything, then she will most likely listen and be willing to do something about it. In order to save your friendship with her, BOTH of you need to stop going for this 1 guy. There are a couple hundred million guys in the world, and i'm sure you'll find at least one to suit you. Plus your only 13, wait till you get to highschool. Theres a bigger variety of cute guys to choose from. You also need to tell this guy how your feeling. I know it'll be tough and hard for you to admit it to him, but better out than in. And when your on the phone with him and he starts to tell you about which girls he likes, then just simply tell him that you feel uncomftorable talking to him about that stuff.If you need anything else, just pop one in the inbox. Good Luck!
hope i helped
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(Rating: 5) thankk youu ! you helped me so much :]
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